I’m Pearl.

An escort, travel companion, sex educator and your enthusiastic pleasure coach, dedicated to helping you realize a fuller more pleasurable life.

I believe your pleasure can be the key to leading a more liberated and fulfilling life.

My training in sex education is world class. I’ve had the privilege to be mentored by some of the best educators whose work has shifted culture to be more inclusive and nuanced. This, coupled with my first-hand experience as an escort and BDSM professional, makes me uniquely equipped to offer real life practical knowledge and recommendations.

I help people like you clarify what you truly desire and figure out how to get it. We go way beyond sex 101, to on-the-ground, in-practice, harm reducing and trauma informed counsel.

I’m known for being warm and engaging, knowledgeable without being academic, candid and open-hearted. I bring my creativity and indispensable sense of humor to all that I do. And I’m committed to you friend.

The crowd at "How to Make Somebody Orgasm on Command" bursting into laughter. 2017 BARTALK The Hague, Netherlands

The crowd at "How to Make Somebody Orgasm on Command" bursting into laughter. 2017 BARTALK The Hague, Netherlands

I believe our stories are connected and I’m sincerely interested in hearing yours.
Here’s to you taking a leap and making this invaluable investment in yourself.

Book a 30 minute $25 phone consultation to see if I might be just what you’ve been secretly wishing for. Coaching sessions available over Skype. In person coaching available when I'm in Toronto & Berlin.

Margaret Choe likes me

Margaret Choe likes me

Sex is just as valid an entry point to do the emotional work towards wholeness and authenticity and ultimately your joy. My methods shift people’s perspectives, opening them up to creative possibilities beyond their sexual lives.
Once we begin to feel. . . our erotic knowledge empowers us, becomes a lens through which we scrutinize all aspects of our existence
— Audre Lorde
Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level of self-acceptance.
— Brené Brown

"I love how she is so open + relaxed + funny about everything"

"I love how she is so open + relaxed + funny about everything"

"I had originally signed up for the blow job skills and was so excited by your lecture and wonderful self that I immediately registered for the Loving the Butt(W)hole workshop. I just want to say that both classes were immeasurably helpful and have made a huge positive impact in my sex life...I truly believe the work you’re doing is so important and much needed in our world." - Berlin workshop participant

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Selection of past works

  • Consult & co-facilitate on sex education for QTBIPoC youth in Germany
  • Nuanced consent discussions
  • Dirty Talking as professional development for agency for independent escorts
  • Hostess final play party each two years of an international kink festival for QTBIPoCs
  • How to Make Somebody Orgasm on Command, Amsterdam & Den Haag
  • Presented three workshops at Desiree Alliance sex worker conference including The Power of Art Compels You and Make it Rain - copy writing for sex workers

Select Titles of on going workshops

  • How to Love the Butt(W)hole
  • Dirty Talking Skills from a Professional
  • Blow Job Skills from a Professional
  • Consensually Yours