Dear Pearl... by Pearl Lee

Dear Pearl,

We met during both of your workshops here in Berlin a few months ago. I had originally signed up for the blow job skills and was so excited by your lecture and wonderful self that I immediately registered for the Loving the Ass(whole) workshop.

I just want to say that both classes were immeasurably helpful and have made a huge positive impact in my sex life. In particular the anal sex workshop.

I had almost no experience with anal sex when I attended, and I had no idea where to start. Any articles I found gave the same advice that hadn’t worked for me.

Well, after attending your workshop, taking detailed notes (I’m a nerd like that) and studying them, I wanted to share with you that I (and my very excited partner) successfully implemented all your strategies and tips and had my very first and extremely enjoyable/fun/amazing/pleasurable anal sex experience!

I cannot thank you enough! Really, thank you from the bottom of my heart. I truly believe the work you’re doing is so important and much needed in our world. Please keep it up!

It feels funny to share this, but I have to. To the few people I can talk to about this, I’m sending them all your way whenever you’re back in Berlin and giving more workshops.

Thanks again!



Love Letters to Pearl by Pearl Lee

How generous of you to write and us to share, a little slice of our heaven with readers here...


Dear Pearl,

Spending time with you is so much more than a casual encounter. You refer to yourself as a sex nerd and this is fitting; your encyclopaedic knowledge of all things sex and pleasure is impressive and it's certainly made me a more confident and better lover.  Your natural curiosity and vivid imagination opens up plenty of opportunities to explore different forms of pleasure. This combination of intellectual and sexual stimulation is extremely gratifying.

Your passion and positive energy are infectious. You love to please and be pleased and it comes across in the way you giggle when I whisper...

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Happy New Year bosom Lover by Pearl Lee


Short 2016 to do list:

  1. Facilitate a girl’s dream gang bang; from picking the players to negotiating the bang
  2. Teach Dirty Talking Skills from a Professional to sex workers again
  3. Attend and facilitate workshops at Desiree Alliance conference (seeking sponsor)
  4. Acquire a decent used camera and learn how to use it
  5. Watch more (post)porn
  6. Make more (post)porn

I am so excited about all the magic I feel coming my way in 2016 and look forward to celebrating with you throughout the new year. Until then, enjoy these photos and video from my new gallery.


Spanking New Website by Pearl Lee

Hey Lover!

Thanks for meeting me here on the blog of my spanking new website. Have you checked it out yet? What do you think? And did you find the videos? Pretty avant-garde for marketing a high end companion, I know. Some would say too artsy fartsy and not enough titilation. But I'm going to take a risk and use this as a platform to show you more of who I am. Anyway, you've seen enough fancy lingerie in professionally photoshopped photography already. Don't get me wrong, I'm a lingerie fanatic myself and worn underneath my dress it does as much for me as you. But as Coco Chanel said,

"In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different."

So, here I attempt to show, rather than tell, about unique, unconventional, creative me. Let's call it experimental marketing for sex work. This blog will be a place to add more original art outside of the galleries and to collect writings about anything that interests me. From film reviews to sex and relationship tips; travel highlights to philosophies on sex work. I could perhaps let you know of friends you might like to meet. And of course, share with you the art I come across that inspires me. 

Expect to find more photos and videos in new galleries soon. And how fun, limited run prints from the collections will be made available for sale in the Shop

Your Postmodern Lover,

xx Pearl

This website and the visual art within is made in collaboration with photography & video artist Mano Krach


I have this roleplay fantasy where you see me dancing in a window. You're a tourist, curiously wandering the red light district in Amsterdam. Just looking. But then, you see me. You like my moves, I hold your attention. I'm wearing fishnet stockings in sky high heels with a wicked smile. You ask, how much? I respond, How much for what? We negotiate the service and price. I open the window and you step through to the other side of the curtain...

I have many fantasies involving trading sex, stripping, bachelor party lap dance, porn star performance, wife wants a new fur coat, ferocious Domina. I'm happily living one such fantasy now. 

Have you ever imagined being a male escort/rent boy/high class gigolo?
Could be fun, I'd play that game with you. Let me hire you.